I really hope that Ruti can change that. For me she does in this book. She teaches us to stop looking to men for approval and cues on how to adjust ourselves to be accepted and start just being ourselves. She talks about unhealthy relationships, phobic men, narcissistic men, manipulators and the traps women fall in without questioning if it's right or wrong or listening to our inner voice.
I found I connected with her writing and her views. Her sense of humour shone through and I felt like I sitting talking to a girlfriend about relationships. A must for any woman in a relationship or looking to be in one.