Things have been really good for the most part.
I'm feeling real good, happy with the progress I've made and hope that it will get better. Things at home are great, kids seem to be growing taller and smarter everyday (sometimes not always a good thing). They are enjoying their summer. They do wish they saw their cousins more but we all work and all the kids are at daycare/camp.
Hubby has to travel this coming week, his mom is sick and he's going down to see her. She's I think 90 years old or close to it. So he wants to be with her. She is such a sweet little lady from the few times I've visited with her.
I was a little surprised last night when my husband called me from his shop. I guess he'd been thinking about going down and called me to ask me/tell me what I thought. Actually he asked me to go online and look at prices and dates, which I did. The way he was talking made it seem kinda like he'd expect me to say no. But of course, I would not in this situation. It's his mama! Gosh, I hope my kids come see me when I'm sick. His mom of course is up there in the years and lives in a secured home because she has alzhemiers or the other one dementia. I'm not sure which. It wasn't even a thought for me, we have the means right now that we can afford for him to go, sure we'll be paying back over the next few months but oh well I say!
These are the choices we make in life. The important choices, things that matter to each other count. I would never say no to pretty much any request he may have. He never says no to mine. I mean gosh, I just spent a bunch of money to take some long distance courses. I paid in full and hubby expects me to succeed and I won't let him down. That is hard earned money that I'm not going to waste.
I knew when I married my husband I made a conscious choice to be with him for good or bad, he has a big family, I don't know hardly any of them except two or his 5 sisters, 1 niece and her kids but not his brother or other relatives. I've even met his 2 of his other 3 children and his ex-wife, no biggy.
What I'm saying is this, there isn't anything in the world I wouldn't do for my husband, I love him unconditionally and I feel the same from him, that hasn't changed in the 11 years we've been together.